Posted by Ajay Matharu in Management, Motivation, Relations, Self Development, lifeNov 18th, 2009 | No Comments
Everyone constantly faces challenges – at home with our spouse, children or other family members; at work with your peers and bosses. Sometimes life itself seems a challenge because it throws up so many relationship-based and situational challenges.
But the biggest challenge of them all is one’s mind. Often, it is possible to control everything else but one’s mind. Being master of the mind is no less than mastery of the world. Chapter 6 of Bhagavad Gita says, “Our mind is our best friend and our worst enemy. If we know how to manage our mind, we can manage our time, our...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in Learnings, Self Development, Thoughts, life, personalOct 3rd, 2009 | 1 Comment
One positive thing that has come out of this uncertain world economy is that it has paved the road for incredible personal development within us all. Many of us are getting “back to basics” and remembering what is important in life.
In times when people are forced to step out of their comfort zone, true personal growth and fantastic breakthroughs can occur. But, how do you know if you’ve actually begun to change?
Some people wouldn’t change anything about themselves and I think that is great! I am not suggesting anyone make changes, but for those that are on a constant journey of growth...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in Leadership, Management, Relations, lifeSep 23rd, 2009 | No Comments
Regardless of your job, role, or organization – and, no, it doesn’t matter what your political beliefs are – keep these 3 management rules front and center when making plans for the future:
1. The strategies most likely to win are the ones that are the easiest to understand. If the situation is complex, figure out a way to make it understandable. Otherwise, you’ll end up being another one of those really smart people who has no followers, no success stories, and no promotional future.
2. Emotion wins over logic 9 times out of 10. When we get emotional we generate energy and enthusiasm...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in Relations, lifeSep 21st, 2009 | No Comments
Here’s what it takes to be a friend in need…
There are some essential attributes that one needs in order to be a good friend. Are you someone who others can turn to for support when they are down or are that friend who can listen for hours together without complaining? So, what’s your friend quotient?
Non-Judgmental
A true friend will never judge you. They will stand by you no matter what you do. They may ot agree with you, but they respect your right to make your own mistakes, have your own opinions, and walk the path you choose.
Supportive
A true friend will be the first person...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in Information, Relations, lifeSep 15th, 2009 | No Comments
GenNext is typically impatient, independent, ambitious and flexible. Here are some of the good and bad sides of these traits.
Ambitious
Pros
Cons
Solution
It's a great trait if you are ambitious from a holistic viewpoint you work hard at making your career as well as relations work.
Causes depression and anxiety if goals are not met.
You should strive hard for success but know your limitations and remember that sometimes in life it's okay to fail.
Ambition translates to hard work, trying different things and keeping an eye out for new...