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People often ask, “What is the logic of meditation? What is wrong with idol worship?” Gurus have clarified that there is nothing wrong, but it is limitation. And if God is everywhere, it is a denial of that truth to have to go to a temple to ffind Him there. If He is in everything, surely He is in me as much as in that place of worship. Why not seek Him within?

An idol is a representation fo the Divine. If a person is capable of understanding this, then there is nothing wrong in idol worship. When we are able to transfer our worship to the Ultimate, then where is the need to depend on a representation?

God is not confined in form or ritual, nor is He resident in scriptures, We have to seek Him in the innermost core of our heart.

It is felt that we prefer to worship Him outside us because it is possible then to isolate Him from ourselves. A God in the temple, can be safely locked up until one needs Him again.

idol worship has prehaps evolved out of this need to isolate Grod from our existence, to be accessed when we need Him, through prayer or offering so that we can come back thinking, “I have sacrificed, and surely I will get,” forgetting that what we have is also His.

In meditation the adoration is, therefore, directed to one’s own heart, to the divinity present therein, and byt hsi act of transcendental worship, the divinisation of human beings is made possible, to culminate in the ultimate achevement of total divinisation of the individual.

The message of spirituality is: “Look within.” This si the message of the Gita, this is the message of the Upanishads: “I am in the heart of every creative being. Look for me there. I am you.”

The ones who are aware of the divinity within would say, “Where religion ends, spirituality begins; where sprirituality ends, reality begins; where reality ends, bliss begins.”

Written by Ajay Matharu

April 8th, 2009 at 10:08 am

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Psychologists say most of us belong to the following personality types. Find out which type you are…

Obsessive Compulsive

Positive – Over achievers

Negative – Disturbed family life, prone to physical ailments, easily stressed

- Do you find it difficult to delegate work to others?

- Are you a workaholic?

- Are you a perfectionist?

- Do you feel recreational activities are a waste of time?

- Are you rigid about morals and values?

Dependent

Positive – Able to sustain relationships, gives into relationships

Negative – Unable to be assertive or deal with changes

- Do you need other people to make important decisions in your life?

- Do you agree with people as you are scared that they’ll abandon you?

- Do you say “yes” even when you want to say “no”?

- Are you unable to deal with criticism?

- Do you try hard to please people?

Histrionic

Positive – Good in media

Negative – Difficulty in relationships

- Do you over react in situations?

- Do you feel uncomfortable when you are not the center of attraction?

- Are you over concerned about your physical attractiveness?

- Do you always want people around you?

- Have yu been called a “flirt” by others?

Avoidant Personality

Positive – Good at doing individual tasks

Negative – Unable to handle jobs that include interacting with others, socially isolated

- Are you unable to make friends?

- Do you feel uncomfortable with others around you?

- Are you unable to take up activities because they include interacting with others?

- Are you very shy?

- Do you feel others will ridicule you?

- Do you fear criticism?

Narcissistic

Positive – Good in media

Negative – Unable to look beyond oneself and/or understand others

- Do you spend hours admiring yourself in the mirror?

- Would you take advantage of some one to fulfill your own needs?

- Are you pre-occupied with yourself?

- Do you feel you are superior than others?

- Do you envy others’ abilities?

Borderline Personality

Positive – Creative and passionate people

Negative – Impulsive and nurse relationship concerns

- Do you feel aimless and lost in life?

- Does acting on your impulses land you in trouble?

- Are you so different at different times that you don’t know what to expect of yourself?

- Are you scared of being alone?

- Have you had one relationship after the other?

Answering “Yes” to three out of five questions puts you in that category. So go ahead and test your type of personality.

Written by Ajay Matharu

January 30th, 2009 at 5:24 am

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