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><channel><title>Fundamental Provocation &#187; Personality</title> <atom:link href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/tag/personality/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com</link> <description>Blog by Ajay Matharu</description> <lastBuildDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 15:09:39 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>10 Tips for leading your team to peak performance</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:34:39 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Actions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[communication]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Performance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1136</guid> <description><![CDATA[#1: Focus on results and productivity and not the time clock When you manage salaried knowledge workers, you should almost never have rigid clock-in/clock-out times unless there is a coverage issue in relation to serving customers (e.g., maintaining adequate help desk coverage during call hours). Instead, set clear goals that you know should take your [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#1: Focus on results and productivity and not the time clock<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">When you manage salaried knowledge workers, you should almost never have rigid clock-in/clock-out times unless there is a coverage issue in relation to serving customers (e.g., maintaining adequate help desk coverage during call hours). Instead, set clear goals that you know should take your employees about 40 hours/week to accomplish. Require that they show up on time for important meetings and are available during the team&#8217;s general working hours. Provide them with the tools to access their work remotely, when needed. Then let them manage their own time. This sends the message that you trust your employees. If you&#8217;ve got people you don&#8217;t trust, that&#8217;s another issue. Manage them up until you do trust them or manage them out to their next opportunity.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#2: Align people with the stuff they are good at<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Make sure you have the right people in the right seats. This is especially true if you take over the management of a team that is already in place. Take stock of all the talents you have on the team and reshuffle the deck if it means that your team has a better chance of success. Don&#8217;t keep someone in a job role just because they&#8217;ve been doing it for long time if you truly think their talents are better suited and could make a bigger contribution in another role. Employees might be reluctant to move in a case like this, so you may need to work hard to convince them that the change is in their best interest, as well as the best interest of the company.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#3: Align people with the projects they are passionate about<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Another part of getting people in the right seats is finding what your employees are genuinely passionate about and seeing if they are ways to align them with job roles that let them channel some of that passion. Occasionally, that can mean putting someone in an area where they don&#8217;t have much experience. But if their previous work history makes you think they can succeed in that role, it&#8217;s usually worth it because their passion will fuel a strong desire to learn and grow. Once they&#8217;re up to speed, that passion can become a strong driver of innovation and growth.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#4: Put your best performers on your biggest opportunities<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">When you have a big opportunity that could propel your organization forward, you need to step back and think about who is the best person to lead the charge. In addition to finding someone who has the talent for the work involved or who has a passion for the subject matter, you need to look at who has a track record of success. Big opportunities come around only once in a while, and they can be lost. So even if it means taking someone off something important, you should always put your best performers on your biggest opportunities.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#5: Find the balance between aggressive and realistic goals<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Create a culture of performance by setting aggressive goals and holding your employees accountable for regularly reporting on their progress. However, the goals can&#8217;t be so aggressive that your employees quickly fall behind and feel like they can never realistically achieve them. Otherwise, they will quit stretching to reach the goals. That means that you have to regularly re-evaluate the goals (at least on a quarterly basis) to decide whether they need to be scaled down or scaled up.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#6: Trust your people &#8212; and let them know it<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Knowledge workers typically have jobs that require creative solutions and decision-making. They need to stay sharp mentally to achieve top performance. The onus is on management to create an atmosphere that fosters and encourages that kind of creativity. One of the best things you can do is to let your employees know that you trust them and that you have faith in their ability to do the job, solve the problem, and/or meet the deadline. If you don&#8217;t trust them, again, you need to manage them up or manage them out.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#7: Avoid blame (a.k.a. throwing people under the bus)<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">In any business (or organizational enterprise), there are going to be times when you fail, and there will be things that simply don&#8217;t pan out the way you had hoped. Do a post-mortem (even if it&#8217;s informal) to figure out what went wrong and learn from it. If there were egregious errors made by individuals, deal with them privately. If necessary, let the person know your expectations for how this should be handled in the future. Don&#8217;t publicly blame individuals &#8212; either directly or indirectly &#8212; in meetings or team e-mails. If you do, you risk creating an atmosphere in which people are so afraid to make mistakes that they don&#8217;t spend enough time doing the proactive and creative work necessary to avoid future problems &#8212; or more important, to drive new innovations.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#8: Foster innovation by killing projects the right way<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Another important part of fostering innovation is knowing how to kill projects effectively and gracefully. There are times when failed initiatives will expose the weaknesses of certain employees, but there are plenty of times when you have good employees working on projects that simply don&#8217;t pan out. Figuring out the difference between those two scenarios is part of becoming a good manager. If it&#8217;s a good person on a bad project, the person who was running the project isn&#8217;t any less talented because the project didn&#8217;t materialize. So make sure you use the project as a learning experience and reassign the person to something new without excessive hand-wringing. Otherwise, you will make your employees overly risk-averse, and they will be reluctant to jump into the next big project or to make bold moves when managing the project. That type of atmosphere can quickly stifle progress.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#9: Don&#8217;t provide all the answers &#8212; make your employees think<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">You are the manager. You are the leader. That does <em>not</em> mean that you have a monopoly on all of the good ideas. If your employees are hesitant to make decisions without asking your opinion first, you haven&#8217;t properly empowered them. If your employees aren&#8217;t making enough of their own decisions, you should change your tactics. When they present you with information and ask what to do about a situation, push the ball back into their court and ask them, &#8220;What do you think?&#8221; They might be surprised at first, but after you do that several times, they&#8217;ll start thinking it through before they come to you so that they&#8217;re fully prepared to discuss the matter and make a recommendation. That&#8217;s a good thing, because they&#8217;re usually closer to the customer and more familiar with the details of the work. You need their opinions. And you need them to make some of their own decisions.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#10: Build consensus by letting people know &#8220;why&#8221;<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">One of your key responsibilities in management is communicating about new initiatives and strategy changes. The worst thing you can do is surprise your staff members with a fully formed idea about a new way to do something that will drastically alter their day-to-day work. When you spring it on them, people will naturally be defensive and skeptical. Whenever possible, give people an informal heads-up that a change is coming and let them know some of the reasoning involved. They will be glad you kept them in the loop. If they don&#8217;t agree with the reasoning, they can express their dissent. They might even bring up a caveat or a gotcha that should be considered before the final plan is solidified. An even better course of action is to have a brainstorming session with your team when you are still formulating a new idea or strategy change, so you can gather their ideas and feedback. You may sometimes have to spring something on your team, but make sure that you limit those occasions. Even then, take the time to let them know the reasoning behind the decision.</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Resource: Techrepublic.com<br /> </span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Being number one is not the end of the chase, its the beginning</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/being-number-one-is-not-the-end-of-the-chase-its-the-beginning/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=being-number-one-is-not-the-end-of-the-chase-its-the-beginning</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/being-number-one-is-not-the-end-of-the-chase-its-the-beginning/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:05:08 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Confidence]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Feelings]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Happiness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Happy]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[NUMEBR one]]></category> <category><![CDATA[personal]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[relaxation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[top]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1250</guid> <description><![CDATA[Often people strive to acquire the number one position. However, once they become number one and feel that hey have achieved everything, it marks the beginning of the rather strange life. Their mind gets totally occupied with retaining the number one position. They become cautious of the people just behind them and put extra effort [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Often people strive to acquire the number one position. However, once they become number one and feel that hey have achieved everything, it marks the beginning of the rather strange life. Their mind gets totally occupied with retaining the number one position. They become cautious of the people just behind them and put extra effort in maintaining image.</p><p class="MsoNormal">The person at a number one position sleeps less, eats less and his peace of mind disappears. Blood pressure, sugar, anxiety, restlessness and palpitation, suddenly become a part of this rich man’s world. In addition, he is left with no inspiration and no one to look up to and achieve a different, much higher target. Not merely he, his entire family bears the brunt of him being at number one position. <span> </span>A self-acquired responsibility dominates his mind almost 24 hours a day, seven days a week and 52 weeks in a year.</p><p class="MsoNormal">On the other hand, imagine the condition of the person who is at number two position. Apart from a little pain of not being at number one position, he is much relaxed and happier. He knows that he can get away with few things as there is a senior above him to take responsibility. He has a well nourished ambition to become number one and he works hard for it. He has a strong credibility attached, as people around him know that still has to reach top and will not spoil his position or reputation. He enjoys an easy life with family and friends. All he needs is to concentrate on his present job, work hard, be honest and dedicated and things would automatically fall in his way. If you have played the game of chess, you would understand the value of ‘Vazir’ who is considered number two in the game but is sometimes even more important than the number one, the kind. Once the ‘Vazir’ is killed, half of the game is won by the opponent.<span> </span>The ranks are in the same order. At times, the number two play a far more important and stronger role in an organisation, than the number one.<span> </span>The dependency of number one on number two makes the later the ‘Vazir’ of the organization without which the ‘King’ is incomplete and fears losing a battle.</p><p class="MsoNormal">This does not imply that one should not strive to become number one. This article is for those who are aiming at becoming number one but they are somehow are not able to achieve the position. Do not worry. There is a famous ad line ‘We are at number two we work hard’. Your efforts are duly recognized by everyone and especially those who fear that someday you would become number one, so be happy.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/being-number-one-is-not-the-end-of-the-chase-its-the-beginning/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>I want to be as famous as &#8220;Persil Automatic&#8221;</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/i-want-to-be-as-famous-as-persil-automatic/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=i-want-to-be-as-famous-as-persil-automatic</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/i-want-to-be-as-famous-as-persil-automatic/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 04:22:59 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Want]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1299</guid> <description><![CDATA[As a teenager, Victoria Beckham’s ambition was not just to be better than her mates or even a famous singer but to become a world brand. She not only dreamed about it, but wanted it enough to go about getting it. That in itself makes her different from most of us. It’s not how good [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">As a teenager, Victoria Beckham’s ambition was not just to be better than her mates or even a famous singer but to become a world brand. She not only dreamed about it, but wanted it enough to go about getting it. That in itself makes her different from most of us.</p><p class="MsoNormal">It’s not how good she was that mattered, it’s how good she wanted to be. What is interesting in her quote is that she didn’t compare herself with George Michael or Mariah Carey, rather she saw the fame of Persil Automatic as her yardstick.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Laugh at it as you may, it’s this highly original imagination that got her where she is today.</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/i-want-to-be-as-famous-as-persil-automatic/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>4</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Do not covet your ideas</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-covet-your-ideas/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=do-not-covet-your-ideas</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-covet-your-ideas/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 04:21:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[exercise]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Secret]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1315</guid> <description><![CDATA[Give away everything you know, and more will come back to you. You will remember from school other students preventing you from seeing their answers by placing their arm around their exercise book or exam paper. It is the same at work, people are secretive with ideas. ‘Don’t tell them that, they’ll take the credit [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Give away everything you know, and more will come back to you.</p><p class="MsoNormal">You will remember from school other students preventing you from seeing their answers by placing their arm around their exercise book or exam paper. It is the same at work, people are secretive with ideas. ‘Don’t tell them that, they’ll take the credit for it.’</p><p class="MsoNormal">The problem with hoarding is you end up living off your reserves. Eventually you’ll become stale. If you give away everything you have, you are left with nothing. This forces you to look, to be aware, to replenish.</p><div style="padding: 0cm 0cm 1pt; border: medium medium 1pt none none solid -moz-use-text-color -moz-use-text-color windowtext;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="border: medium none; padding: 0cm;">Somehow the more you give away the more comes back to you. Ideas are open knowledge. Don’t claim ownership. They’re not your ideas anyway, they’re someone else’s. They are out there floating by on the ether. You just have to put yourself in a frame of mind to pick them up.</p></div> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-covet-your-ideas/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Do not seek praise. Seek criticism.</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-seek-praise-seek-criticism/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=do-not-seek-praise-seek-criticism</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-seek-praise-seek-criticism/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 04:24:26 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[greatness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1309</guid> <description><![CDATA[It is quite easy to get approval if we ask enough people, or if we ask those who are likely to tell us what we want to hear. The likelihood is that they will say nice things rather than be too critical. Also, we tend to edit out the bad so that we hear only [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">It is quite easy to get approval if we ask enough people, or if we ask those who are likely to tell us what we want to hear. The likelihood is that they will say nice things rather than be too critical. Also, we tend to edit out the bad so that we hear only what we want to hear.</p><p class="MsoNormal">So if you have produced a pleasantly acceptable piece of work, you will have proved to yourself that it’s good simply because others have said so. It is probably ok. But then it’s probably not great either. If, instead of seeking approval, you ask, ‘What’s wrong with it? How can I make it better?’, you are more likely to get a truthful, critical answer.</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">You may even get an improvement on your idea. And you are still in a position to reject the criticism if you think it is wrong. </span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/do-not-seek-praise-seek-criticism/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Success and Failure</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/success-and-failure/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=success-and-failure</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/success-and-failure/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:33:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1328</guid> <description><![CDATA[The person who doesn’t make mistakes is unlikely to make anything. Benjamin Franklin said, ‘I haven’t failed, I’ve had 10,000 ideas that didn’t work.’ Thomas Edison said, ‘Of the 200 light bulbs that didn’t work, every failure told me something that I was able to incorporate into the next attempt.’ Theatre director Joan Littlewood said, [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">The person who doesn’t make mistakes is unlikely to make anything.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Benjamin Franklin said, ‘I haven’t failed, I’ve had 10,000 ideas that didn’t work.’</p><p class="MsoNormal">Thomas Edison said, ‘Of the 200 light bulbs that didn’t work, every failure told me something that I was able to incorporate into the next attempt.’</p><p class="MsoNormal">Theatre director Joan Littlewood said, ‘If we don’t get lost, we’ll never find a new route.’</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">All of them understood that failures and false starts are a precondition of success. </span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/success-and-failure/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>It’s right to be wrong</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=it%25e2%2580%2599s-right-to-be-wrong</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:29:57 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1332</guid> <description><![CDATA[Start being wrong and suddenly anything is possible. You’re no longer trying to be infallible. You’re in the unknown. There’s no way of knowing what can happen, but there’s more chance of it being amazing than if you try to be right. Of course, being wrong is a risk. People worry about suggesting stupid ideas [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Start being wrong and suddenly anything is possible. You’re no longer trying to be infallible. You’re in the unknown. There’s no way of knowing what can happen, but there’s more chance of it being amazing than if you try to be right.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Of course, being wrong is a risk. People worry about suggesting stupid ideas because of what others will think. You will have been in meetings where new thinking has been called for, at your original suggestion.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Instead of saying, ‘That’s the kind of suggestion that leads us to a novel solution’, the room goes quiet, they look up to the ceiling, roll their eyes and return to the discussion.</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Risks are a measure of people. People who won’t take them are trying to preserve what they have. People who do take them often end up by having more. Some risks have a future, and some people call them wrong. But being right may be like walking backwards proving where you’ve been. Being wrong isn’t in the future, or in the past. Being wrong isn’t anywhere but being here. Best place to be, eh?</span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>When it can’t be done do it. If you don’t do it, it doesn’t exist</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/when-it-can%e2%80%99t-be-done-do-it-if-you-don%e2%80%99t-do-it-it-doesn%e2%80%99t-exist/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=when-it-can%25e2%2580%2599t-be-done-do-it-if-you-don%25e2%2580%2599t-do-it-it-doesn%25e2%2580%2599t-exist</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/when-it-can%e2%80%99t-be-done-do-it-if-you-don%e2%80%99t-do-it-it-doesn%e2%80%99t-exist/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 06 Jun 2009 04:25:58 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Fun]]></category> <category><![CDATA[greatness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Want]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1326</guid> <description><![CDATA[A new idea can be either unfamiliar or silly or both. It can’t be judged by description. It needs to be done to exist. It is unlikely that anyone will sanction the cost of something they don’t understand; therefore you have no choice but to do it yourself. At whatever cost. You may have to [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">A new idea can be either unfamiliar or silly or both. It can’t be judged by description. It needs to be done to exist. It is unlikely that anyone will sanction the cost of something they don’t understand; therefore you have no choice but to do it yourself. At whatever cost.</p><p class="MsoNormal">You may have to beg, steal and borrow to get it done. But that’s for you to work out how you do it. It’s exiting, it’s difficult and it’s fun. If it was easy anyone could do it.</p><div style="padding: 0cm 0cm 1pt; border: medium medium 1pt none none solid -moz-use-text-color -moz-use-text-color windowtext;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="border: medium none; padding: 0cm;">The film Citizen Kane is a very good example. It was stolen not sanctioned. Orson Welles could not find any backers, but he did raise a small sum for casting. He begged, borrowed and cajoled people into building sets and shooting full-blown screen tests which eventually formed a third of the film. It existed. Backers could see what they were getting he got the money. Without him doing it when it supposedly couldn’t be done, it would be another in the endless list of ideas that never happened.</p></div> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/when-it-can%e2%80%99t-be-done-do-it-if-you-don%e2%80%99t-do-it-it-doesn%e2%80%99t-exist/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Leadership Triats</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/leadership-triats/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=leadership-triats</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/leadership-triats/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 04:11:37 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[communication]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Confidence]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[greatness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[leadership]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Learnings]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://ajaymatharu.wordpress.com/?p=867</guid> <description><![CDATA[Key Trait #1: You must have a vision. We&#8217;ve all heard the saying &#8220;You must stand for something, or you&#8217;ll fall for everything.&#8221; But what does that really mean? Standing firm when it comes to your company&#8217;s policies and procedures is all well and good, but it doesn&#8217;t speak to having a vision. As a [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Key Trait #1: You must have a vision. We&#8217;ve all heard the saying &#8220;You must stand for something, or you&#8217;ll fall for everything.&#8221; But what does that really mean? Standing firm when it comes to your company&#8217;s policies and procedures is all well and good, but it doesn&#8217;t speak to having a vision. As a leader, you have to learn to communicate your vision or the vision of your company to the people you want to follow you. But how can you do that?</p><p> * Learn to paint a picture with words. Speak it, write it, draw it, touch it. Whatever methods you can use to create a picture, do it. As they say, &#8220;A picture is worth a thousand words.&#8221;<br /> * Ask each of the other managers in your company to tell you, in their own words, about the vision of the company. How close is it to what you thought they understood? Is your team on the same page as you?<br /> * As you work, your company&#8217;s vision should be in your mind every day, and you should reevaluate it occasionally so that it stays current with the changing times in which we live. And remember, your staff needs to be just as involved as you in keeping it up to date if you truly want them to buy in on the vision. Be sure to keep your key players involved.</p><p>Key Trait #2: You must have passion. Your employees want passion; in fact, they&#8217;ll go to the ends of earth because of it, live and die for it. Think of the sailors who traveled with Christopher Columbus or Leif Ericsson to explore uncharted territory. Their leaders&#8217; passion inspired them to take on new and very dangerous challenges.</p><p>To build an extraordinary management team, you&#8217;ve got to light the &#8220;fire in their bellies,&#8221; to get them to feel passion about the company and connect to the leader&#8217;s vision. Passion is such a key part of being a great leader that if you don&#8217;t have it, you simply can&#8217;t be a great leader. Think of all the great leaders throughout the ages and try to name one that did not have passion.</p><p>And passion is infectious: When you talk about your vision for the company, let your passion for your vision shine through. Others will feel it and want to get on board with you. If you don&#8217;t have passion for your vision, you need to recreate your vision or reframe your description of your vision so it&#8217;s connected to your passion.</p><p>Key Trait #3: You must learn to be a great decision maker. How are major decisions made in your company? What is your process for making them? For instance, do you talk to your management team and create a list of pros and cons to help you make the best decision? Maybe you conduct a cost analysis. Or do you create a timeline for the implementation strategy, process and timing?</p><p>Some leaders have a set process, and others fly by the seat of their pants. But you don&#8217;t want to be one of those leaders who consults no one before making a decision, announces the change the next day and then gets frustrated when no one follows it. If you&#8217;re one of those, I urge you to implement a set process.</p><p>In fact, here&#8217;s a system you can use to become a better decision maker. It&#8217;s called the Q-CAT:</p><p> * Q = Quick. Be quick but not hasty.<br /> * C = Committed. Be committed to your decision but not rigid.<br /> * A = Analytical. Be analytical, but don&#8217;t over-analyze (Too much analysis can cause paralysis.)<br /> * T = Thoughtful. Be thoughtful about all concerned, but don&#8217;t be obsessive.</p><p>When you use the Q-CAT, it&#8217;ll help you to decide when to bring others into the process and what steps need to be taken to help you make better decisions.</p><p>Key Trait #4: You must be a team builder. To become a great leader, you must develop a great team or, one might say, a well-oiled machine. But how do you do that? You can start by handing off responsibility to your team and letting your team to run with it. Don&#8217;t breathe down their necks and don&#8217;t micromanage, but make yourself available if questions or problems come up. Teach your team to use the Q-CAT decision-making system and give them the freedom to work through their own decisions.</p><p>When projects aren&#8217;t on track or your team is falling behind on deadline, it serves no one if you start pointing fingers. This is when you need to rise to the occasion and inspire confidence in your employees, to let them know you support them and ready to help. Be ready to alter plans and make new ones. Don&#8217;t forget to use humor to keep your team&#8217;s spirits up during a crisis. When an emergency hits, your team will look to you to be a tower of strength and endurance.</p><p>Key Trait #5: You must have character. Without character, all the other &#8220;keys&#8221; are for naught. That&#8217;s because your innate character strengths and limitations play a critical role in your leadership style. The real question is, are you aware of just what role they play? All great leaders have taken steps to learn about their individual personality and what part it plays in their leadership style.</p><p>So what&#8217;s your leadership style? If you don&#8217;t know, there are many leadership style assessments available on the market. Two popular ones that have been around for many years are the Myers-Briggs assessmentand the &#8220;360-Degree Feedback&#8221; model. There are dozens of other to choose from&#8211;the important part is that you &#8220;Just do it,&#8221; as the Nike ad would say, and see how you rate. It&#8217;s a good way to do a &#8220;character check&#8221; on yourself and your leadership skills.</p><p>Then, once you&#8217;ve done the assessment, the question to ask yourself is, do you feel your character matches what the assessments are pointing out to you?</p><p>If you feel the traits don&#8217;t match who you think you are, then look a little deeper and be honest with yourself. Sometimes our first response is defensive. You might want to assess yourself with a different type of profile and then compare the results. Within the 360 Degree Feedback model, there&#8217;s an opportunity to see how your employees and peers view you, too. In learning to be a great leader, the first step is to be open to feedback about yourself as a leader and separate it from you the person.</p><p>So are you a great leader? Or do you have the desire to become one? Remember, a great leader is someone who has a clear vision and can turn that vision into a vivid picture that others can see. When you speak about your vision, it should be with a passion you feel in your heart, a passion that creates so much enthusiasm that your team will want to jump on board. When major decisions need to be made, you should encourage everyone to use the Q-CAT system and be responsible for his or her own actions. And you should be continually assessing your own character and never stop growing, personally or professionally.</p><p>If you can apply the five keys to great leadership, you&#8217;ll be well on your way to becoming a great leader surrounded by great employees!</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/leadership-triats/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Confidence the key to success</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/confidence-the-key-to-success/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=confidence-the-key-to-success</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/confidence-the-key-to-success/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 03:54:49 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Confidence]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Learnings]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Performance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[personal]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1246</guid> <description><![CDATA[Confident people are more likely to perform well and it is a known fact that enhancing confidence levels boosts one&#8217;s performance. Self-confidence is often mistaken for self-esteem but these are two different things. Self-esteem is the way one feels about him or herself &#8211; t is an evaluated judgment about oneself. A person with high [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confident people are more likely to perform well and it is a known fact that enhancing confidence levels boosts one&#8217;s performance. Self-confidence is often mistaken for self-esteem but these are two different things. Self-esteem is the way one feels about him or herself &#8211; t is an evaluated judgment about oneself. A person with high self-esteem is highly critical about themselves despite being confident of doing well.</p><p>Most people have an inner map that determines their confidence levels in different situations. The most important ingredient for success in any field is a strong sense of self-confidence. Some people for instance, are sure about them when interacting with others and can strike conversations with complete strangers. If a person is confident in diverse situations, he or she has greater chance of success in line.</p><p>Templates of this map or schema that determine self-confidence are based on two types of beliefs: The first is belief of possibilities. This refers to what one believes is possible. A shy person believing that it possible to strike up a conversation with a good-looking stranger is a good example. If you believe that something is impossible, it is likely that you will never attempt to do it.</p><p>The second type is belief of capability i.e. what an individual is capable of achieving. Ask yourself, “Am I capable of learning how to be confident in the situation I desire?” Be it social, academics or something else.</p><p>One technique is visualisation to re-programme one’s mind and change the beliefs that rob your sense of ease while doing something. These techniques also enhance self-esteem. Hypnosis or self-hypnosis is another method of changing one’s beliefs and learning how to be more confident. But one should be careful, as hypnosis bypasses critical filters of the mind and unless skilfully done, can cause adverse reactions.</p><p>In addition to changing one’s inner map or schema, it is also important to step out of your ‘comfort zone’ and translate this into action by trying out new behaviours. It is imperative that you keep doing this so that you gradually stretch yourself into becoming confident and effective in more areas of life and thus, more successful</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/confidence-the-key-to-success/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
