Posted by Ajay Matharu in Management, Motivation, Self Development, lifeNov 1st, 2009 | No Comments
We must develop a way to motivate ourselves and “make it happen”. When you are motivated you are ready to take action.
When we are motivated we get following benefits.
* creativity – Once you become focused and motivated, creativity is a natural “side-effect”.
* energy – People who are motivated need less sleep and possess more excitement.
* health – When you are motivated, you have more reasons to get and stay healthy.
* magnetism – Others are naturally drawn to winners and people who are constantly energized.
* momentum – Building and maintaining momentum...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in MotivationJul 26th, 2009 | No Comments
Suppose one of your close friend or one of your relative comes to you. And he asks for your advice on one of the most critical matter. You take full interest in that matter and give them your adivce, suggest them. considering that problem to be yours.
After some day you come to know they did something else, which you suggested was not correct. Something that shouldn’t be done. You feel why the hell I keep giving advice and suggestions, to people if they don’t value it. You feel very low thinking about this, feeling bad that you are of no value to them, because you feel if you had any...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in Motivation, RelationsJul 26th, 2009 | No Comments
One day one of my friend asked me have you ever forgiven something bad someone did to you?
I thought for a moment and then answered I dont remember if I did. Then my friend replied that is the ideal answer which he expected. As he told me if you were able to answer this question or if your answer would have been yes then you had not forgiven.
If you had forgiven and you dont remember that is very good thing but when you remember that you have forgiven someone that does not mean you have forgiven you still remember that.
The base of any relationship in this world is Trust. You should be forgiving...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in RelationsJul 25th, 2009 | No Comments
We think we listen, but few of us actually do. We are deaf most of the time, or we chose to listen selectively. We are poor listeners and consequently, poor communicators. Have you seen yourself readily opening up before some strangers? Most of the time, it is because they are good listeners. They are empathic and patient. They do not jump to judge you or give advice. They never interrupt when you were speaking. They do not rush to fill the silence while you were speaking.
But this is exactly what most of us do, as we are, we want to put it our two penny bit into every conversation. We are desperate...
Posted by Ajay Matharu in MotivationJul 24th, 2009 | No Comments
Dreams have wings. But to fly, we need courage and a little bit of madness. It is possible to do what seems impossible. But for that, you need to visualise success.
Look at what Sarath Baabu has achieved just by dreaming big. He grew up in a Chennai slum, had difficulty paying his tenth standard fees but did not give up. He cracked the IIM entrance, and was in Ahmedabad studying business strategies. But he never lost sight of where he ahd come from, and how his mother struggled while selling idlis, working as a cook and as an adult education teacher in the night to help him reach where he was.
she...