Sep 21st, 2009 | No Comments

Here’s what it takes to be a friend in need…

There are some essential attributes that one needs in order to be a good friend. Are you someone who others can turn to for support when they are down or are that friend who can listen for hours together without complaining? So, what’s your friend quotient?

Non-Judgmental
A true friend will never judge you. They will stand by you no matter what you do. They may ot agree with you, but they respect your right to make your own mistakes, have your own opinions, and walk the path you choose.

Supportive
A true friend will be the first person to offer you a supporting hand whenever you need. They will just help you put things right again. They won’t dismiss your sorrow for whatever reason it may be or won’t consider it as non-important. They will know that it is important to you, and that’s all that matters.

Good Listener
A true friend knows how to listen. Really listen, without feeling the need to talk and turn the conversation focus onto them. They’ll hear what you say and will be able to let you express yourself without interruption.

Faith
A true friend will give you a safe place to be yourself. If you say or do anything wrong, that will not be discussed or mocked by them.

Encouraging
A true friend will help you find your dreams. they will explore your life and help you move towards what you really want in life.

Written by Ajay Matharu

September 21st, 2009 at 10:48 am

Aug 4th, 2009 | 1 Comment

Have you ever wondered about people who seem to naturally attract
good stuff? They have no shortage of money, a circle of great
friends, loving and healthy relationships, great jobs, limitless
possibilities – everything seems to come so easily to them, while you
struggle and scrape by.

These people know the secret to living prosperously – and you can
learn it too! It’s simply a matter of changing the way you think,
feel and act – which will change the results you get in life.

Here are three major components of living a prosperous life:

1) Follow your passions.

Those prosperous people in your life do not settle for mediocrity,
have you ever noticed that? They likely have interesting jobs and
they aren’t afraid to try new things. Each day is a new adventure for
them, and they make a habit of squeezing every drop of joy out of
life that they can.

You can easily do the same by first giving some thought to the
things you feel passionate about. What did you used to love to do
when you were a child? What hobbies or creative pursuits do you enjoy
now? If you can’t come up with any ideas right away, explore! Try new
activities. Sign up for some classes and try new things. Let your
heart lead you in whatever you do, and before you know it you’ll be
living passionately too.

2) Believe in the possibilities.

Prosperous people know that as good as things are right now, they
can always get better. They believe in the limitless possibilities
that exist for their lives, and they quickly take advantage of
opportunities that come their way.

You can begin to adopt this same heightened awareness by expanding
your concept of what is possible for your life. Keep affirming that
your life is not static. Everything within and around you is in a
constant state of flux – nothing stays the same, ever. Learn to
embrace change, consult your inner guidance and take action on
improving your life, and you will automatically call in greater
opportunities.

3) Believe you deserve it.

Prosperous people have no doubt whatsoever that they deserve the
goodness in their lives. They are open to receiving all the blessings
and abundance they believe they deserve, and they gracefully (and
gratefully) accept.

You may not feel that you have worth issues, but ask yourself how
you react when someone gives you a compliment or an unexpected gift.
Do you express your thanks and gratitude, or do you try to refuse it
or dismiss it? If you are in the habit of turning away goodness in
all its forms, you might have an underlying belief that you don’t
deserve it. Start building a stronger belief in yourself and affirm
that you deserve much more than you have now. Express gratitude for
the blessings in your life, and when good things come your way -
embrace them!

If you keep up with these activities on a daily basis, you will
transform yourself into one of those people that seem to have a
prosperity magnet embedded in their brains.

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