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><channel><title>Fundamental Provocation &#187; Creativity</title> <atom:link href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/tag/creativity/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com</link> <description>Blog by Ajay Matharu</description> <lastBuildDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 15:09:39 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>Benefits and Way to develop Motivation</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/benefits-and-way-to-develop-motivation/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=benefits-and-way-to-develop-motivation</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/benefits-and-way-to-develop-motivation/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 06:50:10 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[attitude]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Emotions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Faith]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Goals]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Leading]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Negative Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Positive Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Positivity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1759</guid> <description><![CDATA[We must develop a way to motivate ourselves and “make it happen”. When you are motivated you are ready to take action. When we are motivated we get following benefits. * creativity – Once you become focused and motivated, creativity is a natural “side-effect”. * energy – People who are motivated need less sleep and [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We must develop a way to motivate ourselves and “make it happen”. When you are motivated you are ready to take action.</p><p><strong>When we are motivated we get following benefits.<br /> </strong><br /> * creativity – Once you become focused and motivated, creativity is a natural “side-effect”.<br /> * energy – People who are motivated need less sleep and possess more excitement.<br /> * health – When you are motivated, you have more reasons to get and stay healthy.<br /> * magnetism – Others are naturally drawn to winners and people who are constantly energized.<br /> * momentum – Building and maintaining momentum will breed more motivation and vice verse.<br /> * multiplication – Motivation and energy is contagious! It will spread like wildfire.<br /> * recognition – Others respect you for your achievements because people want to be associated with a winner. They will willingly offer their assistance.<br /> * productivity – Motivated people get more done. They move quickly, deliberately, and maintain a can-do attitude along the way.</p><p><strong>How to Develop Motivation</strong></p><p>We must keep our goals in mind daily through writing them or reading what we have already written. It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily cycle that we make no effort to push forward. How many times have you said to yourself, “Wow, it’s Friday already?” Long-term goals get placed on the back burner and we simply react to whatever happens in our lives instead of leading the way. We may have been “busy” this week, but most times we haven’t accomplished anything significant. This will only make you feel worse which creates a domino-effect. Staying thankful of the things that you do have is a solid way of warding off negative thoughts and emotions.</p><p>Once we reach a major milestone, it is crucial to create a much higher goal and celebrate the achievement. In fact, it’s a good idea to celebrate the achievement before it arrives. When you do this, you put faith in God(universe or whatever you believe in) and yourself that what you desire WILL happen.</p><p>Are you motivated? What’s holding you back?</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/benefits-and-way-to-develop-motivation/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Accept Change, Move On</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/accept-change-move-on/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=accept-change-move-on</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/accept-change-move-on/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:24:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Learnings]]></category> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Accept Change]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Changes]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Emotion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Emotions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Solutions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Strategy]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1753</guid> <description><![CDATA[When the word &#8216;creativity&#8217; is used, we generally understand it as the ability to create something physical and unique. Creativity is often taken in the context of art and literature. An artist expresses his creativity through the colors he uses, a writer through words, an architect through his buildings and a musician with his instrument [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When the word &#8216;creativity&#8217; is used, we generally understand it as the ability to create something physical and unique. Creativity is often taken in the context of art and literature. An artist expresses his creativity through the colors he uses, a writer through words, an architect through his buildings and a musician with his instrument and musical notes. But there is more to creativity than that. It can also mean recreating one&#8217;s life.</p><p>In any life, the only constant is change. Everyone faces different phases of life. Our ability to deal with those changes dexterously is called creativity. It requires that one be willing to step away from easy answers and quick solutions. It needs  one to look beyond the familiar and into uncharted territory. Ultimately, creativity is about risk and courage.</p><p>As a toddler; we find life gloriously free from responsibility. As we grow older, social norms require us to adapt our behavior to the external world. Gradually, we get programmed to behave in a certain way.</p><p>It is almost a metaphor for life, which forces us to adapt to real time change. For example, life changes once we get married and have children, The carefree life changes into a life of responsibility. It is possible to feel stifled by the link between one&#8217;s behavior and the way others fee.</p><p>Every aspect of life requires us to be creative. As circumstances change, we should be able to dance in the moment. Many people find themselves unable to accept changed circumstances, making for great frustration. For instance, a strategy shift in an organization inf the form of either a merger or an acquisition will affect many employees. Some get more responsibility and some may lose jobs. Just months ago, recession forced change on reputable organizations, some of which filed for bankruptcy. Many faced management changes, retrenchment and relocation of employees. Many found employees resentful and confused.</p><p>These reactions indicate a collective and destructive emotion even though every individual should instead, take ownership of his/her reaction. The downturn was an irreversible process. But how does one handle such a devastating situation? We need to understand that once an event has occurred, it is entirely up to us to choose the way we accept and move forward. When we resist change, we stagnate.</p><p>Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties. Conditions for creativity are to be puzzled; to concentrate; to accept conflict and tension; to be born everyday; to feel a sense of self.</p><p>Creativity in our interaction with people is one of the most crucial skills a human being can have. It is also the one that people focus on least, choosing instead to concentrate on developing our academic skills or general knowledge.</p><p>So, what is it that prevents us from accepting change? Our fear of failure because we underestimate our capacity to learn new things. It appears unthinkable because the mind says, &#8220;I am best at what I do&#8221;. But how will you ever know if you are good or bad at something else unless you try it. There are also the social pressures of being at a particular level in our job and egotistic anger about being passed over, say, for promotion.  The right question for those who wait for the perfect job, perfect boss, perfect organization and perfect colleagues, is; &#8220;How perfect am I?&#8221;</p><p>Change by definition is temporary. The pace at which a person accepts the change and moves on truly shows his creativity. Re-creating one&#8217;s own life the highest form of creativity because &#8220;the future doesn&#8217;t just happen, it&#8217;s shaped by decisions.&#8221;</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/accept-change-move-on/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>10 Tips for leading your team to peak performance</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:34:39 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Actions]]></category> <category><![CDATA[communication]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Performance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[responsibility]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1136</guid> <description><![CDATA[#1: Focus on results and productivity and not the time clock When you manage salaried knowledge workers, you should almost never have rigid clock-in/clock-out times unless there is a coverage issue in relation to serving customers (e.g., maintaining adequate help desk coverage during call hours). Instead, set clear goals that you know should take your [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#1: Focus on results and productivity and not the time clock<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">When you manage salaried knowledge workers, you should almost never have rigid clock-in/clock-out times unless there is a coverage issue in relation to serving customers (e.g., maintaining adequate help desk coverage during call hours). Instead, set clear goals that you know should take your employees about 40 hours/week to accomplish. Require that they show up on time for important meetings and are available during the team&#8217;s general working hours. Provide them with the tools to access their work remotely, when needed. Then let them manage their own time. This sends the message that you trust your employees. If you&#8217;ve got people you don&#8217;t trust, that&#8217;s another issue. Manage them up until you do trust them or manage them out to their next opportunity.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#2: Align people with the stuff they are good at<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Make sure you have the right people in the right seats. This is especially true if you take over the management of a team that is already in place. Take stock of all the talents you have on the team and reshuffle the deck if it means that your team has a better chance of success. Don&#8217;t keep someone in a job role just because they&#8217;ve been doing it for long time if you truly think their talents are better suited and could make a bigger contribution in another role. Employees might be reluctant to move in a case like this, so you may need to work hard to convince them that the change is in their best interest, as well as the best interest of the company.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#3: Align people with the projects they are passionate about<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Another part of getting people in the right seats is finding what your employees are genuinely passionate about and seeing if they are ways to align them with job roles that let them channel some of that passion. Occasionally, that can mean putting someone in an area where they don&#8217;t have much experience. But if their previous work history makes you think they can succeed in that role, it&#8217;s usually worth it because their passion will fuel a strong desire to learn and grow. Once they&#8217;re up to speed, that passion can become a strong driver of innovation and growth.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#4: Put your best performers on your biggest opportunities<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">When you have a big opportunity that could propel your organization forward, you need to step back and think about who is the best person to lead the charge. In addition to finding someone who has the talent for the work involved or who has a passion for the subject matter, you need to look at who has a track record of success. Big opportunities come around only once in a while, and they can be lost. So even if it means taking someone off something important, you should always put your best performers on your biggest opportunities.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#5: Find the balance between aggressive and realistic goals<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Create a culture of performance by setting aggressive goals and holding your employees accountable for regularly reporting on their progress. However, the goals can&#8217;t be so aggressive that your employees quickly fall behind and feel like they can never realistically achieve them. Otherwise, they will quit stretching to reach the goals. That means that you have to regularly re-evaluate the goals (at least on a quarterly basis) to decide whether they need to be scaled down or scaled up.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#6: Trust your people &#8212; and let them know it<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Knowledge workers typically have jobs that require creative solutions and decision-making. They need to stay sharp mentally to achieve top performance. The onus is on management to create an atmosphere that fosters and encourages that kind of creativity. One of the best things you can do is to let your employees know that you trust them and that you have faith in their ability to do the job, solve the problem, and/or meet the deadline. If you don&#8217;t trust them, again, you need to manage them up or manage them out.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#7: Avoid blame (a.k.a. throwing people under the bus)<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">In any business (or organizational enterprise), there are going to be times when you fail, and there will be things that simply don&#8217;t pan out the way you had hoped. Do a post-mortem (even if it&#8217;s informal) to figure out what went wrong and learn from it. If there were egregious errors made by individuals, deal with them privately. If necessary, let the person know your expectations for how this should be handled in the future. Don&#8217;t publicly blame individuals &#8212; either directly or indirectly &#8212; in meetings or team e-mails. If you do, you risk creating an atmosphere in which people are so afraid to make mistakes that they don&#8217;t spend enough time doing the proactive and creative work necessary to avoid future problems &#8212; or more important, to drive new innovations.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#8: Foster innovation by killing projects the right way<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Another important part of fostering innovation is knowing how to kill projects effectively and gracefully. There are times when failed initiatives will expose the weaknesses of certain employees, but there are plenty of times when you have good employees working on projects that simply don&#8217;t pan out. Figuring out the difference between those two scenarios is part of becoming a good manager. If it&#8217;s a good person on a bad project, the person who was running the project isn&#8217;t any less talented because the project didn&#8217;t materialize. So make sure you use the project as a learning experience and reassign the person to something new without excessive hand-wringing. Otherwise, you will make your employees overly risk-averse, and they will be reluctant to jump into the next big project or to make bold moves when managing the project. That type of atmosphere can quickly stifle progress.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#9: Don&#8217;t provide all the answers &#8212; make your employees think<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">You are the manager. You are the leader. That does <em>not</em> mean that you have a monopoly on all of the good ideas. If your employees are hesitant to make decisions without asking your opinion first, you haven&#8217;t properly empowered them. If your employees aren&#8217;t making enough of their own decisions, you should change your tactics. When they present you with information and ask what to do about a situation, push the ball back into their court and ask them, &#8220;What do you think?&#8221; They might be surprised at first, but after you do that several times, they&#8217;ll start thinking it through before they come to you so that they&#8217;re fully prepared to discuss the matter and make a recommendation. That&#8217;s a good thing, because they&#8217;re usually closer to the customer and more familiar with the details of the work. You need their opinions. And you need them to make some of their own decisions.<br /> </span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:18pt"><strong>#10: Build consensus by letting people know &#8220;why&#8221;<br /> </strong></span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">One of your key responsibilities in management is communicating about new initiatives and strategy changes. The worst thing you can do is surprise your staff members with a fully formed idea about a new way to do something that will drastically alter their day-to-day work. When you spring it on them, people will naturally be defensive and skeptical. Whenever possible, give people an informal heads-up that a change is coming and let them know some of the reasoning involved. They will be glad you kept them in the loop. If they don&#8217;t agree with the reasoning, they can express their dissent. They might even bring up a caveat or a gotcha that should be considered before the final plan is solidified. An even better course of action is to have a brainstorming session with your team when you are still formulating a new idea or strategy change, so you can gather their ideas and feedback. You may sometimes have to spring something on your team, but make sure that you limit those occasions. Even then, take the time to let them know the reasoning behind the decision.</span></p><p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman; font-size:12pt">Resource: Techrepublic.com<br /> </span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/10-tips-for-leading-your-team-to-peak-performance/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>JQuery TOOLS &#8211; New Javascript Library, can it compete JQuery UI?</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/jquery-tools-new-javascript-library-can-it-compete-jquery-ui/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=jquery-tools-new-javascript-library-can-it-compete-jquery-ui</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/jquery-tools-new-javascript-library-can-it-compete-jquery-ui/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 07:39:57 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Design]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Javascript]]></category> <category><![CDATA[JQuery]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Web]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Javascript Library]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Jquery]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1392</guid> <description><![CDATA[These days almost every site uses JQuery. It makes your life so easy. There is this another Javascript library called JQuery Tools that is coming up as competitor for JQuery UI. Here is the link to the JQuery Tool http://flowplayer.org/tools/demos/index.html. But the question, for which I am searching the answer is, Can JQuery Tools really [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>These days almost every site uses JQuery. It makes your life so easy. There is this another Javascript library called JQuery Tools that is coming up as competitor for JQuery UI. Here is the link to the JQuery Tool http://flowplayer.org/tools/demos/index.html.</p><p>But the question, for which I am searching the answer is,<br /> Can JQuery Tools really compete with JQuery UI? And who would answer this question better then you guys.</p><p>So what you guys think, JQuery Tools Vs JQuery UI, who wins?</p><p>I look forward for hearing your thoughts on this. As this may help others to decide what should they go from either of these</p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/jquery-tools-new-javascript-library-can-it-compete-jquery-ui/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>It’s right to be wrong</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=it%25e2%2580%2599s-right-to-be-wrong</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 05:29:57 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1332</guid> <description><![CDATA[Start being wrong and suddenly anything is possible. You’re no longer trying to be infallible. You’re in the unknown. There’s no way of knowing what can happen, but there’s more chance of it being amazing than if you try to be right. Of course, being wrong is a risk. People worry about suggesting stupid ideas [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Start being wrong and suddenly anything is possible. You’re no longer trying to be infallible. You’re in the unknown. There’s no way of knowing what can happen, but there’s more chance of it being amazing than if you try to be right.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Of course, being wrong is a risk. People worry about suggesting stupid ideas because of what others will think. You will have been in meetings where new thinking has been called for, at your original suggestion.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Instead of saying, ‘That’s the kind of suggestion that leads us to a novel solution’, the room goes quiet, they look up to the ceiling, roll their eyes and return to the discussion.</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Risks are a measure of people. People who won’t take them are trying to preserve what they have. People who do take them often end up by having more. Some risks have a future, and some people call them wrong. But being right may be like walking backwards proving where you’ve been. Being wrong isn’t in the future, or in the past. Being wrong isn’t anywhere but being here. Best place to be, eh?</span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-right-to-be-wrong/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>It’s wrong to be right</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-wrong-to-be-right/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=it%25e2%2580%2599s-wrong-to-be-right</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-wrong-to-be-right/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:28:28 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1330</guid> <description><![CDATA[Being right is based upon knowledge and experience and is often provable. Knowledge comes from the past, so it’s safe. It is also out of date. It’s the opposite of originality. Experience is built from solutions to old situation and problems. The old situations are probably different from the present ones, so that old solutions [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">Being right is based upon knowledge and experience and is often provable. Knowledge comes from the past, so it’s safe. It is also out of date. It’s the opposite of originality. Experience is built from solutions to old situation and problems. The old situations are probably different from the present ones, so that old solutions will have to be bent to fit new problems. Also the likelihood is that, if you’ve got the experience, you’ll probably use it. This is lazy.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Experience is the opposite of being creative. If you can prove you’re right you’re set in concrete. You cannot move with the times or with other people. Being right is also being boring. Your mind is closed. You are not open to new ideas. You are rooted in your own rightness, which is arrogant. Arrogance is a valuable tool, but only if used very sparingly.</p><p class="MsoNormal">Worst of all, being right has a tone or morality about it. To be anything else sounds weak or fallible, and people who are right would hate to be thought fallible.</p><div style="padding: 0cm 0cm 1pt; border: medium medium 1pt none none solid -moz-use-text-color -moz-use-text-color windowtext;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="border: medium none; padding: 0cm;">So; it’s wrong to be right, because people who are right are rooted in the past, rigid-minded, dull and smug.</p></div> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/it%e2%80%99s-wrong-to-be-right/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Don’t be afraid of silly ideas</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-be-afraid-of-silly-ideas/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=don%25e2%2580%2599t-be-afraid-of-silly-ideas</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-be-afraid-of-silly-ideas/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:09:55 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Performance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1334</guid> <description><![CDATA[We all get mental blocks. We need to get unblocked. The way to get unblocked is to lose our inhibitions and stop worrying about being right. The comedian John Cleese puts it rather more eloquently, ‘High creativity is responding to situations without critical thought’. If you are in deadlock here are a couple of tricks [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">We all get mental blocks. We need to get unblocked. The<span> </span>way to get unblocked is to lose our inhibitions and stop worrying about being right.</p><p class="MsoNormal">The comedian John Cleese puts it rather more eloquently, ‘High creativity is responding to situations without critical thought’.</p><p class="MsoNormal">If you are in deadlock here are a couple of tricks you might try.</p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="text-indent: -18pt;"><span><span>-<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; -x-system-font: none;"> </span></span></span>Do the opposite of what the solution requires.</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Look out of the window and whatever catches your eye, a bird, a television aerial, an old man on crutches or whatever, make that the solution to your problem.</span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-be-afraid-of-silly-ideas/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Don’t give a speech put on a show</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-give-a-speech-put-on-a-show/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=don%25e2%2580%2599t-give-a-speech-put-on-a-show</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-give-a-speech-put-on-a-show/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 04:08:22 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Learnings]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Work]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1336</guid> <description><![CDATA[When we attend a lecture, we generally go to see the speaker not to hear what they have to say. We know what they have to say. That’s why we go to see them. How many speeches have your heard? How many of them can you remember? Words, words, words and words. In a song, [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal">When we attend a lecture, we generally go to see the speaker not to hear what they have to say. We know what they have to say. That’s why we go to see them.</p><p class="MsoNormal">How many speeches have your heard? How many of them can you remember?</p><p class="MsoNormal">Words, words, words and words. <span> </span></p><p class="MsoNormal">In a song, we remember firstly the melody and then we learn the words. Instead of giving people the benefit of your wit and wisdom, try painting them a picture.</p><p><span style="font-size: 11pt; line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Calibri&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">The more strikingly visual your presentation is, the more people will remember it. And more importantly, they will remember you. </span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/don%e2%80%99t-give-a-speech-put-on-a-show/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Team Building &#8211; exercise 2</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/team-building-exercise-2/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=team-building-exercise-2</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/team-building-exercise-2/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Tue, 12 May 2009 06:29:24 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Project Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[building team]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[exercise]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team building]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team exercise]]></category> <category><![CDATA[team management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[teamwork]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1197</guid> <description><![CDATA[Last time I posted the first exercise I took in my team building session. This is the second one. Set up numbered paper plates in the following pattern on the floor or take a printout of this pattern and pass it to each team. 9 41 33 29 1 10 42 34 30 2 49 [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last time I posted the first exercise I took in my team building session. This is the second one.</p><p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial;">Set up numbered paper plates in the following             pattern on the floor or take a printout of this pattern and pass it to each team.</span></span></p><table border="0" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">9</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">41</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">33</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">29</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">1</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle">10</td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">42</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">34</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">30</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">2</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">49</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">17</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">13</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">21</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">53</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">50</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">18</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">14</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">22</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">54</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle">5</td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">25</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">37</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">45</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">57</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">6</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">26</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">38</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">46</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">58</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">12</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">44</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">36</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">32</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">4</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">11</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">43</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">35</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">31</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">3</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">52</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">20</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">16</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">24</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">56</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">51</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">19</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">15</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">23</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">55</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">8</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">28</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">40</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">48</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">60</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">7</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">27</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">39</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">47</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">59</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">The rules of this exercise are:</span></p><ol><li><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">The exercise is completed when all plates               are touched in numerical order.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">If any plate is touched out of order, then               the participants must begin again at one.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">Only one plate can be touched at a time.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">Coaching from the team is encouraged.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">The exercise will be timed.</span></li></ol><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">Solutions:</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">1. Pattern: After a few times through the             exercise, this pattern will begin to develop.</span></p><table border="0" width="100%"><tbody><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">9</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">41</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">33</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">29</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">1</span></td><td rowspan="7" align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">10</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">42</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">34</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">30</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">2</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">49</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">17</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">13</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">21</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">53</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">50</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">18</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">14</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">22</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">54</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle">5</td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">25</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">37</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">45</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">57</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">6</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">26</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">38</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">46</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">58</span></td></tr><tr><td colspan="5" align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"><img src="http://www.leadersinstitute.com/teambuilding/images/space111.gif" border="0" alt="" width="20" height="5" /></td><td colspan="5" align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">12</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">44</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">36</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">32</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">4</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">11</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">43</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">35</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">31</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="#cccccc"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">3</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">52</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">20</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">16</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">24</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">56</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">51</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">19</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">15</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">23</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">55</span></td></tr><tr><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">8</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">28</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">40</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">48</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">60</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">7</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">27</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">39</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">47</span></td><td align="center" valign="middle"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;">59</span></td></tr></tbody></table><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"> 2. Rearrange Plates: Creative             teams may decide             to rearrange the plate into an             easier order. As the facilitator, you must tell them to             restart the exercise every time they touch             a plate out of order. Teams really thinking             outside the box will ignore this distraction             and continue putting plates in an easier             order.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: x-small;"> 3. Other solutions your team             may invent.</span></p> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/team-building-exercise-2/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Taking Risks to Grow</title><link>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/taking-risks-to-grow/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=taking-risks-to-grow</link> <comments>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/taking-risks-to-grow/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 18:20:26 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Management]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category> <category><![CDATA[personal]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Creativity]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Inspiration]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Personality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Thinking]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Want]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.ajaymatharu.com/?p=1135</guid> <description><![CDATA[What is a Risk? With respect to your workplace, &#8216;risk&#8217; can be defined as a threat of getting into an unsuitable job, lack of job satisfaction, delayed growth or sometimes unwarranted diversion from reaching goals set in your career. No Risk No Gain Without taking risks one cannot ascend the corporate ladder. If you want [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is a Risk?</p><p>With respect to your workplace, &#8216;risk&#8217; can be defined as a threat of getting into an unsuitable job, lack of job satisfaction, delayed growth or sometimes unwarranted diversion from reaching goals set in your career.</p><p>No Risk No Gain</p><p>Without taking risks one cannot ascend the corporate ladder. If you want to grow and excel in your career, you have to take risk, and there is simply no other way. Remember that once you get into the comfort zone, it is definite that you will stop growing.</p><p>When to take risk?</p><p>With some risks, the &#8220;smartness factor&#8221; is inherent and obvious. But for all those other risks, from the tiny &#8216;risking a new way to respond to the colleagues snide comments&#8217; to the major &#8216;changing careers,&#8217; knowing whether or not the risk is good one can be confusing. Knowing how to take a calculated risk to get ahead is a skill we all need to have and it starts, to our utter surprise, with knowing what we want. If we know that, half our battle is won. Smart risk taking means accepting that you might fall, but at the same time knowing that there is a fair chance for you to succeed too. It is also important to know why you are taking the risk and what your end goal is. &#8220;Risks are rally worth taking if they are likely to have a significant and major impact on your business.&#8221;</p><p>Calculated risks</p><p>If you intend to be a path-breaker, do your homework and make sure you have mastered the required skills. Prepare as much as possible for your chosen career avenue, discuss with those you think can guide you. Don&#8217;t burden yourself with financial liabilities without ensuring that your venture has market acceptance. There is no fear if you are the best.</p><p>Backup plan</p><p>Risk should be calculated and there should always be a backup plan ready in case the first one fails. Detail what negatives could result fromt he risk. If any of those should happen, what would you do? Do not put all your eggs in one basket. What separates achievers from ordinary people is their willingness to take optional as well as necessary risks.</p><p>Expert speak</p><p>Risk taking is not for everyone and it depends on the personality of the person. Often creative people who think out of the box are the one who take risks.</p><p>Successful Risk Taking</p><ul><li>Be positive and self confident in your outlook.</li><li>Do your homework well; know your abilities and strengths.</li><li>Weigh your pros and cons when taking risk.</li><li>Do not put all the eggs in one basket.</li><li>Keep a backup plan.</li><li>Challenge yourself to be all you can be, more so than you&#8217;re ever been.</li></ul> ]]></content:encoded> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.ajaymatharu.com/taking-risks-to-grow/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
