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		<title>Is PINTEREST spamming?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 14:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately, Pinterest have really grown enormously. It has very intuitive design and very good concept of visual bookmarking. Infographics shared on pinterest are just amazing, you get to know all the collated information at one page, in one single very attractive image. Today, while pinning I came across a page, saying, scavenger hunt price. It was clearly [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately, Pinterest have really grown enormously. It has very intuitive design and very good concept of visual bookmarking. Infographics shared on pinterest are just amazing, you get to know all the collated information at one page, in one single very attractive image.</p>
<p>Today, while pinning I came across a page, saying, scavenger hunt price. It was clearly a pinterest page but when you click on any of the listed gift, it takes you to another site. That, another site, was surely a SPAM as detected by anti-virus. Guys beware of such spams</p>
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		<title>TWEET OLD POST &#8211; Update 3.2.7</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2011 15:09:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tweet old post &#8211; update 3.2.7 &#160; What&#8217;s new: Enable Log &#8211; I have included this option to log all that happens while posting a post to twitter. Please enable this if something is not working for you. You can try again after enabling log and check the log.txt file under log folder under wp-content/Tweet-Old-Post/log/log.txt. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Tweet old post &#8211; update 3.2.7</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>What&#8217;s new:</p>
<p><strong>Enable Log</strong> &#8211; I have included this option to log all that happens while posting a post to twitter. Please enable this if something is not working for you. You can try again after enabling log and check the log.txt file under log folder under wp-content/Tweet-Old-Post/log/log.txt. If you are not able to understand or make it work you can mail me the log.txt file at ajay[at]ajaymatharu[dot]com</p>
<p><strong>Exclude Post</strong> &#8211; Yes, exclude post is back in this version. I have worked on the vulnerability issue and resolved that in this version.</p>
<p><strong>Misc</strong> &#8211; Some other bug fixes and optimization. Tried to resolve the issue of nothing happens when you click to authorize twitter account with plugin.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>There were some other options that were confusing here is the explanation for those,</p>
<p><strong>Use Inline Hashtags</strong> &#8211; If checked it looks for hashtags (from tags/categories/custom field/common) within the tweet content, if found it replaces that word with hashtag. If not checked hashtag will be added at end of tweet.</p>
<p><strong>Maximum Hashtag Length</strong> &#8211; Specifies maximum number of character hashtags can contain. This is included to calculate the tweet length. e.g. Suppose you have set this to 30, if your post&#8217;s total hashtags character length is more than 60 it will it will trim it to 30 character to include those in tweet. This is to include more content in your tweet than hashtags. If you set this to 0 it will post all the hashtags reducing the size of your tweet content.</p>
<p><strong>Random Interval</strong> &#8211; its an random interval which is added to minimum interval. e.g. if you have set the minimum interval to 4 hours and random interval to 4 hours the next post may happen at 4 hours 28 mins or 4 hours 58 mins. This option adds some additional time interval to minimum time interval.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>You can download the latest plugin from <a title="Tweet Old Post Download Link" href="http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/tweet-old-post/" target="_blank">WordPress</a></p>
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		<title>Things to learn from Mahendra Singh Dhoni</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 15:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[LET CRITICISM INSPIRE YOU During the presentation ceremony of the 20-20 World Cup, Dhoni looked at Ravi Shashtri and, with a genuine smile, said, I remember you called us underdogs and so we have won the cup for you. Here is a man who does not collapse under the weight of a comment from an [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LET CRITICISM INSPIRE YOU </strong></p>
<p>During the  presentation ceremony of the 20-20 World Cup, Dhoni looked at Ravi  Shashtri and, with a genuine smile, said, I remember you called us  underdogs and so we have won the cup for you. Here is a man who does not  collapse under the weight of a comment from an important cricketer but  works forward with gusto, logic and a renewed determination. <strong>When  important people undermine or underestimate you, get in touch with your  feelings of fear, dread, anger or sadness and convert these into greater  resolve.</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>MOVE ON </strong></p>
<p>When India  loses, Dhoni often publicly accepts the teams shortfalls but does not  dwell on them for long. During one loss, he said, This match is over, lets  plan for the next. Unlike captains of yesteryears, who would  brood, ruminate and introspect too much, our reigning captain has mastered  the art of <strong>leaving things behind</strong>. Fear and disappointment are not  allowed to percolate his mind. Just <strong>focus on newer frontiers with a fresh  pair of eyes and a refreshed mood</strong>. Do not be the victim of excessive  critical appraisal from yourself or others. It may paralyse you.<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>US, NOT I </strong></p>
<p>On  the day of victory, the World Cup was in every players hands, except  Dhonis. A couple of years ago, Dhoni asked Anil Kumble to take the cup  after a victory in a test series. His genuine affection for his team is  visible and the bonding is strong. He has praise for all but neither did  he mince words when Gambhir failed to make his 100 due to a bad shot. He  is genuine, even blunt. He has publicly made statements such as, Our middle  order should perform or Sreeshanth should behave.<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>STAY COOL </strong></p>
<p>Dhoni  is cool during tense moments. No sledging, or rash words. It would be  interesting to learn more about his self-talk. It probably involves  thoughts such as Calm down, Focus now or Let me try something new. <strong>The  feeling of dread and fear is allowed to pass</strong>. He probably observes these  emotions come and go on his mind screen. This thought process is visible  on his face that remains childlike many a time during a crisis. So, when  the chips are down, just observe your feelings as they come. If you find  yourself fretting or yelling, you have been hijacked emotionally and will  lose friends and battles. If not, creative responses will emerge.<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>KEEP AT IT </strong></p>
<p>MSD  teased Ravi Shashtri by saying, If we had lost, many questions  why  Sreeshanth, why did I bat before Yuvraj  would have been asked. His  getting into the middle of a battle shows he loves challenges and does  not bother with incessant advice from exgreats. Like Anil Kumble, who  shared at his retirement that he ignored all criticism during his lean  period and persisted, our captain also practices dogged perseveration  with risk-taking. The Dhoni mantra is clear  persevere while down, take  risks and obey your instincts.<strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>GRATITUDE </strong></p>
<p>Lastly  but importantly, Dhoni feels and expresses his gratitude openly. After the  win, he said, I chose to come before and Gary backed me. Thanking Gary and  Paddy, and others significant to his performance as well as that of the  team, comes naturally to him. Gratitude is a part of his personality.</p>
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		<title>What it takes to hold on to your principles &#8211; Would you walk like Sachin</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2011 07:44:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Would you walk like Sachin &#160; What does it take to hold on to principles? How difficult is to be man of integrity in today&#8217;s world? But Sachin Tendulkar, stands on his principles no matter what. A great exhibition of his integrity was when Sachin Tendulkar walked out, without a backward glance, in India Vs [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Would you walk like Sachin </strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>What does it take to hold on to principles?</p>
<p>How difficult is to be man of integrity in today&#8217;s world? But Sachin Tendulkar, stands on his principles no matter what. A great exhibition of his integrity was when Sachin Tendulkar walked out, without a backward glance, in India Vs West Indies world cup match, even when an Australian umpire Steve Davis declared him not out!</p>
<p>Sachin, did not hesitate for a second walked off. He knew he has nicked the ball and that was enough for him to walk off. This is not the first time, Sachin has always been a walker!</p>
<p>Ricky Ponting, Australian captain on the other hand, stood his ground even when he knew he has nicked the ball, while playing against Pakistan. He was declared not out but he did not walk off, after being reviewed he was declared out. In the post match interview, Pointing confessed, he knew he had nicked, but din&#8217;t walk off.</p>
<p>Sachin, being such a great cricketer, nobody ridicule&#8217;s him for holding on to the principles. But not everyone is Sachin.</p>
<p>Adam Gilchrist, another Australian, is one of the player who walks off. He has confessed he never had support from his team to walk off which made him feel isolated. He said, he felt selfish, as if he is walking for the sake of my own image, thereby everyone else look dishonest.</p>
<p>Principles are difficult to stand by, especially when others oppose. All of us have some principles, but they often become flexible, depending upon situation. You should always stand to your words, you should refuse to compromise under any circumstances, be in integrity. You&#8217;ll always have problems in doing so, but if you stand out you&#8217;ll always be happy deep within.</p>
<p>People in today&#8217;s world try to look good and avoid looking bad, thinking what others will think about them. It has become very difficult to be honest, but you should be honest with yourself, atleast!</p>
<p>To be true to yourself takes courage. It requires you to be introspective, sincere,open-minded and fair. It does not mean that you are inconsiderate or disrespectful of others. It means that you will not let others define you or make decisions for you that you should make for yourself.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t listen to those who say, &#8220;It&#8217;s not done that way.&#8221; Maybe it&#8217;s not, but maybe you will. Don&#8217;t listen to those who say, &#8220;You&#8217;re taking too big a chance.&#8221; Michelangelo would have painted the Sistine floor, and it would surely be rubbed out by today. Most importantly, don&#8217;t listen when the little voice of fear inside of you rears its ugly head and says, &#8220;They&#8217;re all smarter than you out there. They&#8217;re more talented, they&#8217;re taller, blonder, prettier, luckier and have connections…&#8221; I firmly believe that if you follow a path that interests you, not to the exclusion of love, sensitivity, and cooperation with others, but with the strength of conviction that you can move others by your own efforts, and do not make success or failure the criteria by which you live, the chances are you&#8217;ll be a person worthy of your own respect.&#8211;Neil Simon</p>
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		<title>Coping up with inferiority complex</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2011 20:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having an Inferiority Complex can have disastrous effects. A lot of people tend to suffer from inferiority in varying degrees and very few are brave enough to accept this fact.Lets analyze: Do you often compare yourself to others and feel inferior compared to them? Do you intentionally avoid any form of competition because you&#8217;re afraid [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span><span>Having an Inferiority Complex can have disastrous effects.</p>
<p>A lot  of people tend to suffer from inferiority in varying degrees and very  few are brave enough to accept this fact.Lets analyze: Do you often  compare yourself to others and feel inferior compared to them? Do you  intentionally avoid any form of competition because you&#8217;re afraid you  will lose to others? Are you always afraid to voice your opinions, fearing  that others will laugh and ridicule you for it? And in the process avoid socializing or restrict yourself only to a couple of friends. Do you  wonder if others have anything good to say about yourself?  If yes, then  there are high chances that you suffer from Inferiority Complex.<strong></p>
<p>DEFINITION </strong></p>
<p>Inferiority  complex is mainly a psychological condition that finds its roots in  childhood and manifests itself into adulthood, if not recognized at an  earlier stage. Those who  suffer from such a complex constantly belittle themselves and are very  sensitive. Feelings of inferiority arise when one feels that he/she is  less worthy than a certain group of people or that he/she doesn&#8217;t have  enough skills in comparison with his/her peers. For e.g. When you see an  attractive or a talented person, you feel bad. Deep inside, you wish you  can be like them. You&#8217;re constantly dissatisfied and blame yourself saying  I&#8217;m not good enough.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span><br />
Inferiority complex is, The common cold of Psychology. Inferiority Complex is putting oneself down (degrading yourself)  for something that you do not possess.This possession could be in terms  of abilities and talents and/or materialistic commodities. <strong></p>
<p>CAUSES </strong></p>
<p>There  are several reasons for harboring an inferiority complex, the most  common one being, parental attitudes. When  parents are very harsh towards their child in terms of criticism and  constantly comparing with others, the child begins to feel that he/he is  not good enough. There are cases of individuals who have been  under-achievers academically and socially brings down their morale and self-worth. Then there are some who are taken for granted by their  partners in their relationships, by abusing them and putting them down  all the time. Sometimes bad experiences like getting humiliated by ones  peers in school or even at work due to mistakes, can make one prone to  inferiority complex.<br />
Reasons like social  conditioning where winners are looked upon more favorably than those  who don&#8217;t win, rich people are believed to be superior than the  poor, etc. add to the belief that one is superior or inferior as a person  according to what he/she achieves and does. So a combination of social  factors play a part in the development of the inferiority complex.<strong></p>
<p>EFFECTS </strong></p>
<p>Having  an inferiority complex can have adverse effects on ones  personality, relationships and on the professional front too. As for  effects on ones personality, there&#8217;s a severe lack of  self-confidence which could give rise to stuttering, stammering and social  isolation. Sometimes it can also give rise to substance abuse in the  form of alcoholism, smoking, etc.,  as a negative form of coping, which is  more common among men. Women on the other hand, tend to indulge in  jealousy, bitterness and pettiness as a form of coping, which is  undesirable too. As for relationships, individuals suffering from  inferiority complex tend to cower and are always at the mercy of  others. They devalue themselves, and believe that they cant do better and  wont get better. So they live in physically, emotionally and sexually  abusive relationships because they believe that they are worthless that  they dont deserve better. They are always submissive and non-confrontational because they think so little of themselves. Thus, they  always play second fiddle in their relationships and compromise beyond  the limits of their integrity. </span></span></p>
<p><span><span>On the professional  front, such individuals never accept challenging roles. They always hide  from demanding work. Because they never wish to fail and are petrified of  being accountable, they make safe choices. So they run away from taking  responsibility, avoid positions of power and/or promotions.<strong></p>
<p>COPING </strong><br />
</span><span>It  is imperative that one immediately work on their self-esteem to combat  feelings of inferiority complex. It is always better to seek professional  help to handle such a delicate issue. The first step is to identify the  core issues underlying this behavior. Positive thinking and self-talk is  crucial.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span>Following are some tips:<br />
- Learn to focus on your strengths and potentials.<br />
- Make it a point to reward yourself for your achievements.<br />
- Remind yourself that you are worthy of praise and praise yourself.<br />
- Stop placing unrealistic high expectations on yourself.<br />
- Take in enjoyable activities and surround yourself with positive people who like and encourage you to do better.<br />
- Nurture your body with a healthy diet and exercise.<br />
- Be forgiving of yourself when things dont go as planned.</span></span></p>
<p><span><span>Hope this helps<br />
</span></span></p>
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		<title>10 Things to learn from JAPAN</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2011 17:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. THE CALM Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated. 2. THE DIGNITY Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture. 3. THE ABILITY The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn&#8217;t fall. 4. THE GRACE People bought only what they [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. THE CALM</p>
<p>Not a single visual of chest-beating or wild grief. Sorrow itself has been elevated.</p>
<p>2. THE DIGNITY</p>
<p>Disciplined queues for water and groceries. Not a rough word or a crude gesture.</p>
<p>3. THE ABILITY</p>
<p>The incredible architects, for instance. Buildings swayed but didn&#8217;t fall.</p>
<p>4. THE GRACE</p>
<p>People bought only what they needed for the present, so everybody could get something.</p>
<p>5. THE ORDER</p>
<p>No looting in shops. No honking and no overtaking on the roads. Just understanding.</p>
<p>6. THE SACRIFICE</p>
<p>Fifty workers stayed back to pump sea water in the N-reactors. How will they ever be repaid?</p>
<p>7. THE TENDERNESS</p>
<p>Restaurants cut prices. An unguarded ATM is left alone. The strong cared for the weak.</p>
<p>8. THE TRAINING</p>
<p>The old and the children, everyone knew exactly what to do. And they did just that.</p>
<p>9. THE MEDIA</p>
<p>They showed magnificent restraint in the bulletins. No silly reporters. Only calm reportage.</p>
<p>10. THE CONSCIENCE</p>
<p>When the power went off in a store, people put things back on the shelves and left quietly</p>
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		<title>A persons single weakness is stronger than all his strengths!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2011 12:31:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just as a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, our strength is defined by our vulnerabilities, not our strong points. Not all the preparation in the world or intelligence can help you with any exam if you have an indecipherable handwriting that the examiner cannot figure out! Here your handwriting rather than [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span><span>Just as a chain is only as strong as its weakest  link, our strength is defined by our vulnerabilities, not our strong  points. Not all the preparation in the world or intelligence can help you  with any exam if you have an indecipherable handwriting that the  examiner cannot figure out! Here your handwriting rather than your  intelligence and hard work decide your future.</span></span></p>
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Similarly, you may have  worked out a superb project with deep research and smart inputs, but if  your timelines are not worked out and you cross the deadline, it is those  couple of hours of delay that become the decisive factor! Similarly, you  may be a great worker and a superb professional, but your loose tongue  at an inappropriate moment may put paid to the rest of your capabilities  ! And just like an intelligent chat show host, you will always find  plenty of people around you not just willing, but eager to exploit your  negative potential as displayed through that one weak link, that one  vulnerability! </span></span></p>
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There is a category of people who wheedle info after  putting you at ease and assuring you they are totally with you. Most of  us have had a brush, or several, with the office pseudo sympathiser who  always emerges soon as he smells your moment of insecurity or misery. He  always knows, for he is on the lookout. And sure enough, there he appears  with oodles of sympathy and a smile, pumping you subtly for  information. He gives subtle hints and encourages you to speak up. In a  moment of weakness, you are most prone to let go and spill it all  out. Satisfied, he runs back where he came from and uses the information  to his own advantage before you realise! It is only later you realise he  got you to bare all but never ever shared any of his or her own  troubles! Your one weak moment could have done you a lifetime of harm! </span></span></p>
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Consider  the power of weakness! Even the power of a relationship it is rightly  said, lies with the one who cares less never with the one who cares more  and so has more at stake! So the weaker your love, the more powerful you  are to mould or manoeuvre the relationship and your partner as and how  you wish to! And yet, what a miserable power when the partners weakest  link, his/her strong love for you, would be the biggest weapon you would  use against them! </span></span></p>
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It is indeed our moments of weakness and weak  points that we need to guard its when you are most comfortable that you  should be most guarded too. We are born with strengths that we can at  best hone and understand, but an equally important task is to understand  our weaknesses and work hard upon those. For these, our greatest  weaknesses, if guarded and worked upon, have the potential of becoming our  greatest strengths!</span></span></p>
<p><span><span> Remember,the great Achilles was only as strong as  his weak heel! Had that not been known, who could have killed him. </span></span><span><span>Had it not been known that Bheeshma would lay down his  weapons if faced by a woman and Shikandi not been used for the  purpose,who could have defeated the mighty warrior  Had it not been  known that Abhimanyu could pierce the chakravyuha but not find his way  back,how could that innocent son of Arjuna been killed by the Kaurvas.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Make new joinee member of your team</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Mar 2011 18:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Learnings]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Management]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[be helpful to new joinee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[How to treat new joinees]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[make new joinee comfortable]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A new member joining your team Yes,it could take time for the team to warm up to him/her but dont let this be a reason to make them feel left out.Its important to get acquainted with the person and make them feel welcome and comfortable.Remember,you were also a newcomer at some point.Think about what all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span><span>A new member joining your team Yes,it could take time  for the team to warm up to him/her but dont let this be a reason to make  them feel left out.Its important to get acquainted with the person and  make them feel welcome and comfortable.Remember,you were also a newcomer  at some point.Think about what all your team members did then to  welcome you.Here are some points to heed.<strong></strong></span></span></p>
<p><strong>Be helpful and friendly: </strong></p>
<p>She/he  is brand new so try and be as helpful as you can.And this is not only  regarding work,but also things like showing them around the  office,telling them about the way the team works,keeping them in the  loop about meeting schedules,timings of the cafeteria,etc.Help them with  the smaller issues so that they can comfortably settle into their new  role.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Try not to compare: </strong></p>
<p>If the new team member  is replacing someone,especially one who was close to you,do not compare  them.Remember,she/he is new and will take time to learn things.And if  they dont meet your expectations,you are bound to start resenting  them.Avoid that.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Do not feel threatened: </strong></p>
<p>Just  because the person is new,she/he isnt naturally a threat to your  position,even if they are more educationally qualified.Also,she/he going  over the call of duty should not be interpreted as trying to get into  the bosses good books.Being new,they will obviously go the extra mile to  make a good first impression.Instead of de-motivating or reprimanding  them,help and train them to do things the right way.<strong></strong></p>
<p><strong>Give them a fair chance: </strong></p>
<p>Do  not rush to conclusions about their ineffectiveness at the very first  mistake.She/he is getting used to you and the team and vice verse.Yes,there will be habits that need getting used to but learn to be  tolerant.More importantly,look for the positives in the new person and  use them to help her/him fit into the team.</p>
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		<title>WordPress stuck at briefly unavailable for scheduled maintenance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2011 13:44:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Bypass maintenance mode in wordpress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disable maintenance check in wordpress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[disable maintenance mode in wordpress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Maintenance mode in wordpress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prevent maintenance check]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prevent maintenance message]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[prevent scheduled maintenance message]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Today while updating a plugin, update window got stuck at following image, And I was not able to figure out why was it. Then I went back to the update page and saw the following message, Here you can see the wordpress enables maintenance mode before pushing any update. But what if  update is not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today while updating a plugin, update window got stuck at following image,</p>
<div id="attachment_2606" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 710px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2606" href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wordpress-stuck-at-briefly-unavailable-for-scheduled-maintenance/wordpress_maintenance/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2606" title="Wordpress_Maintenance" src="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Wordpress_Maintenance.png" alt="Wordpress scheduled maintenance message" width="700" height="169" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Wordpress scheduled maintenance message</p></div>
<p>And I was not able to figure out why was it. Then I went back to the update page and saw the following message,</p>
<div id="attachment_2609" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 744px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2609" href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wordpress-stuck-at-briefly-unavailable-for-scheduled-maintenance/enabling_maintenance/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2609" title="Enabling maintenance mode in wordpress" src="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Enabling_maintenance.png" alt="Enabling maintenance mode in wordpress" width="734" height="172" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Enabling maintenance mode in wordpress</p></div>
<p>Here you can see the wordpress enables maintenance mode before pushing any update. But what if  update is not completed successfully?</p>
<p>If update does not happen successfully your page gets stuck on above image and your site shows message in first image.</p>
<p>How can you remove this annoying messages? After googling out I figured out wordpress creates a .maintenance page in the root directory where your wordpress is installed. You need to delete this file, which I did. After deleting the site was up again.</p>
<div id="attachment_2610" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 255px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2610" href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wordpress-stuck-at-briefly-unavailable-for-scheduled-maintenance/maintenance_file/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2610" title="Wordpress maintenance file" src="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/maintenance_file.png" alt="Wordpress maintenance file" width="245" height="237" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Wordpress maintenance file</p></div>
<p>But this happened everytime I tried to update that plugin. So I searched for place where wordpress was checking if it is in maintenance mode.</p>
<p>WordPress has a file called as &#8220;wp-settings.php&#8221; in the root directory. It has line of code that checks if maintenance mode is enabled. So just comment that line and wordpress will not go in maintenance mode again.</p>
<div id="attachment_2611" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 479px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2611" href="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wordpress-stuck-at-briefly-unavailable-for-scheduled-maintenance/comment_maintenance/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2611" title="Bypass maintenance mode check in wordpress" src="http://www.ajaymatharu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/comment_maintenance.png" alt="Bypass maintenance mode check in wordpress" width="469" height="232" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Bypass maintenance mode check in wordpress</p></div>
<p>It will show you the message enabling maintenance mode but still your site will be up.</p>
<p>Hope this helps.</p>
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		<title>How to prevent image from caching in javascript</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Feb 2011 16:01:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ajay Matharu</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Browsers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Javascript]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Clear image cache in browser]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Image Cache in browser]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Image Caching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Image caching in Javascript]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[javascript code to clear image cache in browser]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Javascript code to prevent image caching]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Javascript to prevent image cache]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Prevent image cache]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Prevent Image Caching]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Many a times when we replace the image with the same name, browser still picks up the old one. Almost every developer faces this issue, then he asks the person to clear the cache by ctrl + F5 or any other means. But is this the solution? No, So what can we do in this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many a times when we replace the image with the same name, browser still picks up the old one. Almost every developer faces this issue, then he asks the person to clear the cache by ctrl + F5 or any other means. But is this the solution?</p>
<p>No, So what can we do in this case? There are two solutions,</p>
<p>1 &#8211; rename the new image and change the image name in code. But for a dot net developer this is pain because he may have to republish the code and send an upload of the dll again. And giving an upload of dll because of change in image is foolishness, ain&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>2 &#8211; Another solution is to write a javascript code so that the browser does not pick up image from the cache and loads it everytime. Following is the sample code of how you can try this,</p>
<pre name="code" class="javascript">
document.getElementById('myimg').src = document.getElementById('myimd').src + '?' + (new Date()).getTime();
</pre>
<p>You need to make sure this code runs after page has loaded else, it will give an error if that image tag is not yet rendered.</p>
<p>In JQuery for single image code will be</p>
<pre name="code" class="javascript">
$(document).ready(function(){
$("#myimg").attr('src',$(this).src + '?' + (new Date()).getTime());
});
</pre>
<p>For all the images </p>
<pre name="code" class="javascript">
$(document).ready(function(){
jQuery('img').each(function(){
jQuery(this).attr('src',jQuery(this).attr('src')+ '?' + (new Date()).getTime());
});
});
</pre>
<p>Hope this helps. If you have any more idea please share it with us by dropping a comment.</p>
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